With
Valentine's Day just around the corner, I know a lot of people are
getting excited about celebrating it with their other halves and are
eagerly planning what they're going to buy for them. However, I also
know of a lot of single people who aren't looking forward to the big
day at all and are feeling down about not being in a relationship
which is how I felt last year when I had my first single Valentine's
day in seven years. This year, I feel a whole lot better about it
after being single for a whole year and I thought it would be a good
idea to share some reasons why it is okay to be single, just in case
some of you are feeling down about it.
- You
don't need to make sure you've remembered to shave your legs/pits/big
toes just to please someone else. (Thanks Elizabeth!)
- You can spend the day lazing around in your tattiest pyjamas and you
don't have to worry about wearing matching or even nice underwear.
- Everything costs half as much as it did before, so you don't have to
worry about the train to London costing £50 or that meal in your
favourite American diner costing £30 - there's only one of you now
so it's half price!
- You don't have to put up with any silly interests that men have like
football (seriously, who cares?) or cars (yawn!) there's more time
for what you actually enjoy.
- You
can do whatever (and whoever) you want, when you want.
- You can join an online dating site like Global Personals on Wikipedia, even if
it's just for a bit of an ego boost because you get 10+ messages a
day from desperate guys who are full of ass licking compliments. You
never know, you might even find someone decent on there and even if
you don't, you can get a good laugh out of it.
- You can go on dates with whoever you want and get free meals or
drinks out of it. If you don't like the person then you don't have
to see them again. They get the pleasure of your company and you get
a night out. Perfect.
- You don't have to spend time worrying about what someone else thinks
about you or worrying if they're going off you at all. (Thanks
Cara!)
- You
can starfish in bed (as long as the cat doesn't get in the way and if
she does then you can spoon her anyway) and you can have all the
pillows, yes even the good one.
- You
don't have to put up with anyone else's disgusting bad habits and
there's nobody there to tell you off for your bad habits. So when you
want to pick your nose or squeeze that huge spot on your chin, you
can do it.
- You
get to spend time with the most important person in the world –
YOU! You can also make more time for the friends that tend to get
neglected when you're in a relationship.
- Men are pigs.
Love this post and agree with every single point made!
ReplyDeleteI've been in a relationship four years and haven't celebrated Valentines once - find it a bit pointless personally! Loved this post though, sometimes getting to spread out across the whole bed is just so much better xx
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im hate valentines day and am i the only who thinks its cringey? im in a relationship but i treat it as a normal day and refuse to go out with the bf on that day. i deffo agree on most of the points
ReplyDeleteYES YES YES! Love this!!!
ReplyDeleteoh i love valentines, hate the fact its soo comercialised now but we actually dont usually do anything other than order a chinese and watch a film together and ejnoy eachothers company x
ReplyDeleteHehe this cheered me up about the whole 'being single on Valentines' day situation ;) thanks Hayley! Xoxo
ReplyDeleteHaha, I love this! I'll be single again this year for another Valentine's day, but couldn't be bothered one little bit. At 27, I'm quite happy in my own company and ready to start a new life in September at university. High five to being single!
ReplyDeleteLaura x | Life and Lipstick